We never expect the signs of a mate from God. Matchmaking can come from anywhere, either from far away places at the ends of the earth or from even the closest places. When a mate has been met by Allah SWT, then no one can stop it except Allah SWT.
Matchmaking, sustenance and death are things that are indeed full of mysteries. The reason is that we do not know who will be our mate in the future. Only Allah knows and we can only pray for the best.
However, signs of mate guidance from Allah may be seen and felt. The various feelings you feel when you are with him can be signs that someone is your soul mate. The following is a summary of various sources, about the signs of a mate from Allah.
Signs of Mate from Allah
Having Faith and Similar Attributes
The first signs of a soul mate from Allah are having faith and traits similar to yours. As contained in the letter An-Nuur verse 26 which has the meaning that a good woman will be matched with a good man too.
Matchmaking is a reflection of you, so everyone will find the right match for him. Even though you don't know the time yet, you must wait patiently because Allah SWT has promised it.
Show What It Is
The next signs of a mate from God are that he will always appear as he is in front of you. Nothing is made up and forced in all his behavior and gestures. All his behavior is how he really is, genuine without falsehood.
Usually this can be seen from the comfort it shows. If he doesn't seem comfortable with what he's doing and his style in front of you, then you can be sure he's playing an act. But if his appearance and behavior seem spontaneous, he may be your soul mate.
Feel Comfort
Feeling mutual comfort in interacting or socializing is one of the signs of a soul mate from God. How not, humans as social beings will of course always communicate with other people, especially for people who will always be alone all the time.
Of course it takes a comfort in communicating and interacting. When your heart is peaceful, comfortable and at peace with someone, then maybe it is a sign of a soul mate from God.
Mutual trust
It's hard to find honest people these days. If you find someone who is very honest and you think you will believe him, then maybe those are signs of a mate from Allah.
When you trust someone in telling your secrets, and you feel like you can't hide anything from them, then maybe he or she is the person you've been waiting for.
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Signs of A Mate from Allah
Motivating each other
Signs of mate from God can also be seen from how you and him motivate each other. When life is tough and being tested, of course you need motivation from someone. Especially when you are experiencing failure, usually there are many people who cannot accompany you anymore.
From here you can see who is staying and cheering you on. Your soul mate will always support and motivate you even in the toughest times. You will motivate each other with him and always be there in times of trouble and joy.
In addition, mate can also be seen from morals and speech that have motivational value. This has an impact on the closer you and him to Allah SWT. Someone like this will always try to make you feel happy and avoid feeling sad.
Mutual Understanding and Forgiving
When you meet someone who can understand whatever your situation is, maybe it could be signs of a mate from God. There is nothing complicated about mate, if indeed he is your soul mate there is nothing that can prevent you from loving each other.
Automatically feelings of love will arise in each other's hearts, and from there you will understand each other and understand how we are, our physical and in any condition. The person who is your soul mate will always forgive you sincerely without any reason.
Plus, when you're alone with him, things will become easier. You are not afraid of something heavy even if you face it together with him, of course with the help of Allah SWT.
Doing the Istikharah Prayer
The last signs of a mate from Allah is to do the istikhara prayer. By putting your trust in and praying to Allah SWT, you will always be protected and get the best mate for you. After meeting him you will steady your heart and stop looking for others. Allah SWT will always guide his servants who are diligent in worship to the best way.
